There are certain things that define your personality and attitude-the right way of doing things is one of them. Attitude is much more than feelings, thoughts, or behaviour towards somebody or something. It attitude defines your fulfilment and your values and as such, it matters how you deliver your speech, act or hear.
In essence, what you pay attention to, who you listen to, or what you look at have an effect on your attitude and the content of your character. It is the reason why you can say something that is right the wrong way or hears something wrongly.
The wrong attitude causes unhealthy competition, causes one to measure and compare himself with others, breeds contempt, envy and strife. Once you notice a negative attitude, it is expedient that you quickly get it out of your life by using the right attitude. However, having the right attitude causes you to be attentive to details and do things excellently. It breeds promotion, exultation, grace and humility.
Question is how do I be better?
What you need to do is make a list of people you listen to, examine yourself- your character, your reaction or non-reaction to things/people, find out what influences you as well as your habits both good and bad and begin to consciously replace your negative attitude with the positive ones. Remember, that it is all in the detail.